Feeling Valuable Equation|☘️|=🍀

There are some formulaic sentences. "You are valuable, are you aware of your worth? etc etc." Usually the people who say these stereotypes are the people you feel most worthless next to, which doesn't change much. Because when convincing someone or waiting to be convinced, people usually express the point they can't feel the most. If you don't feel that someone cares about you, be sure to ask them, "Am I really valuable to you?" you ask. The words of affirmation you will receive for this question may satisfy you for a short time, but the main point that is overlooked is that you feel the need to ask this question. Because the value given is felt and you don't need to ask about it.

The concept of value is not necessarily related to a second person. The concept of value is all about your core self.

A person's self-worth is the final result of feelings filtered through certain experiences. A person who realizes himself has sharp lines. Yes, he can instantly love and possess. He may get hurt a little when he doesn't see the same light in front of him, but his recovery speed is very high. As Sezen Aksu said in one of her songs;

gone is already gone

I can't cut, I can't cut your way

Accustomed to purchased love

A child's quick satisfaction with any toy

I'll go my way too

I do not torture myself

But I don't move my heart

I'll take my pain.

You can accept these verses as a summary of the subject I mentioned. When you make a decision, if your priorities are determined by what you want, you are aware of your self-worth. But if your priority is what the other person wants, you can evaluate the situation as the opposite.

How can you increase your self-worth?

Of course, there are many things you can do about this. For example;

Do not immediately take the action you are thinking about a topic. Be sure to take into account how much the positive or negative consequences of the action will affect you.

Know that the people you see as perfect have a negative side. Do not raise people in your eyes unnecessarily.

Show yourself compassion. Generally, people do not mind making criticisms so harshly that they cannot make others.

Stay away from people who constantly criticize you as much as possible. Capture the nuances between quality criticism and insulting criticism.

Most importantly, remove people from your life who see it as a blessing to spend time with you. I can swear that you will feel more peaceful and happy when you start making some of the changes I have written above, but I cannot prove it to you until you try it. I would like to tell you about an equation that I created myself, which I always scribble somewhere when I feel bad. This equation has become a motivational tool that gets me on my feet.

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I really needed luck when creating this equation. That's why I used the clover symbol. My logic was this:

Whatever you put in the absolute value will come out as positive. Then, as long as I value myself and make it absolute, its reflection will be positive. In other words, the clover I put in the absolute value turned out to be a 4-leaf clover, and as long as I carried out this equation, I always started to experience positive events. Now you know the equation. I hope my equation will bring you the precious person in you.